Becacia
1. Forgive yourself2. Try to do things dat makes u happy b4 u enterd in2 d relationship.3. Listen music dat has to do with heart-breaks e.g what is love by Jenifer lopez, foolish by Ashanti, always be my baby by Mariah carey etc4. Pray to God5. Stop thinking abt d person6. stop discussing it wid frds, so as not to be led on d wrong path.7. Stop trying to make it work, wen u kno its really damaged alrdy.it wud only mke tins worse8. Stop consoling urself nd be strong.9. Dnt regret all d moments u spent wid d person..just kno dat it ws fun wyl it lasted.10. Have it in mind dat, ur Man is out dr, nd u gna meet him soon...11. Try to always kip ursef busy..evn if means writtn down somfn.12. Accept dat d relationship is over.13. Try to focus on ur future nd work towards achieving ur dreams.14. Dnt be too hard on yourself.15. You are nt alone in d world! Always rmba dat. (12 years ago)

PHOENIXBAALAA
Very nice but its not so easy to keep these in mind to an ordinary person when facing more hurdles and disappointments in life.. I mean, its easy to say but tough to practice.. Anyway, very nice sayings to turn a man into optimised way.. (12 years ago)

johnbissa
first, say 'THANKS' to the god because ur EX does not deserve you. second, make new frnds, change surroundings, music(energetic songs), third n most imp thing.... move on....it was just a chapter of ur life, turn the page n see... the whole world is waiting 4 you!!!!!  (12 years ago)

crow58
Love again.....thats ma only opinion. (12 years ago)

Sharma92
I am agree with my anna  (12 years ago)

Becacia
Its okay to Love again, bt plz dnt rush into any other relationship! Take your time nd try to be sure dat you have learnt som mistakes in ur past r'ship! Cuz if u just rush into anoda just becuz u feel u wud get over d prev Heart break, it mite help nd it mite not...cuz u mite just b into anoda wrong r'ship wich mite break ur heart once again.....am telln u dis frm xperience! So plz take ur time...u dnt have to b in a r'ship b4 u can be happy, cuz dat wud only shw dat u are weak in person and u depend on others for happiness...u can as well create your own happiness! So be strong nd dnt make d guy/girl feel like dey are your source of happiness! Wen d type comes nd u are sure dat u can handle any r'ship better dan ur prev ones, den u can get into one! Bt i advise u take ur time...and gals dnt let us forget the traditions of 'playing hard to get' it helps alot! Evn if u like d guy, stil play dat part till u are sure d guy is for real! guys value nd respect gals who aint cheap evn wen dey dont kno dey do...I ha (12 years ago)

Becacia
I have a page on facebook, dat deals with dis more..i wud love it if u guys could 'Like' my page. My FaceBook I.D is - Funmilayo Akins LizzyBecacia- N:B-the link to the page is on my profile wall.Thanx all..xxx (12 years ago)

crow58
Wow u truely know a lot about relationships nwys i'll seek u on your page if i need advice... (12 years ago)

almon13
ders nothing i can say! F uv ben hurt, cry n cry,tel ders no ters n ur eyes, im sure 8 can feel u beter. (12 years ago)

Swabir67
I'll follow each n every step of urs tnx so much! (12 years ago)

Swabir67
I'll follow each n every step of urs tnx so much!B (12 years ago)

rapkez01
im agree w/ baalaaa...  (12 years ago)

NeonBlonde
Becacia these were some wise words! V sweet of you.. Heartbeat sux ill check out that FB (: (12 years ago)

NeonBlonde
btw just wondering ,do we add u as a friend on FB to see the link?  (12 years ago)

Becacia
Awww....this is so sweet! Thannx for the encouragements everyone,realy appreciate it....i happnd to b a victim of an hrt-brk...i didnt let it weigh me down..instead it made me stronger and wiser!Neonblonde deary! I undastnd ow u feeln nd i kno wt u goin tru...what i wud tell is ''To b strong'' no guy is worth ur tears nd ur brk down...just b strong nd start doin things dat wud inspire other pple like you...xxxyou can search me on face book with this email address-(Becaciaxy02@yahoo.com)and to like my page, all u nid to do is goto my info and click on my website..better stil u can click on d link below my BIO. Cant wait to have u all join me wid my Tips on hrt-brks! Be STRONG, PRAY nd Be WISE!!!  (12 years ago)

Becacia
Yes deary! You can add me...wud gladly confirm ur requests!  (12 years ago)

Xiankheith
its so hard to do alL ur advice, huhuhuhu (12 years ago)

Becacia
No its nt! Xcept dts wt u wana make ur self belief! Ask ur self, are u ready to stop being sober and move on?? Den u gna find it verry easy to follow up my tips! Unless u aint ready for it. Nothing good comes easy, u ve to read and understand b4 u pass an examination! So if u wna b free frm any emotional pain...its nt goin to be easy, dts y u nid to b strong and make up ur mind to do wteva it takes to recover frm the pain or hrt-brk. So its up to you....xxx (12 years ago)

AzureBalmung
why get in a relationship in the first place if all this crap is gonna happen to you just because you chose wrong (12 years ago)

Becacia
Well, relationship isnt a Do or die affair! It is people's free will...you can decide to b in a relationship or not! But dnt be too scared to get in2 a r'ship becuz u scared dat somone mite break ur heart. U sud kno dt life itself its full of ups and down and only d fittest survives! So in everythn u do in life, you must always b ready for challenges and ow u overcom dose challenges tells if u are weak or strong! Life isnt bed of roses, so always xpect d unxpected frm people and dnt always xpect dt, d pple u love and trust so much, wud forever b faithful to you....wid dat, u can b ready for any challenges. And no matter all d challenges faced, some day u wud finally get what you want and dat will happen if u dnt give up! Let ur challenges makes u more STRONGER and not Weaker!!! (12 years ago)